We'll travel to Holland soon for a bachelor party. Of course the wedding partners are not supposed to know this and hopefully they will be very surprised to see us there. I guess they expect some kind of party but they should not have any idea when. It's difficult to keep it a secret. Whenever they call (and that's about every day) we have to make sure the kids do not answer the phone as they may tell them very enthusiastically that we'll be travelling to Holland. Luckily so far we managed fine; they still have no idea.